Mum and dad

My mum and was born in Biggleswade (sometimes referred to as Giggleswade in our family) in 1948.  Biggleswade is the home of Jordans cereals and at one time it was recorded that it had 52 pubs. (Mum has told me on several occasions that her Uncle Arthur once saw a ghost skating on Biggleswade pond … there may be a connection between the ghost and the number of pubs).

Mums parents were Ellen Brooker and Frederick Charles William Payne. Mum had two sisters who were twins – Pamela Ann and Freda, seven years older than herself but Freda died when she was only three days.

Mum spells her name Diane but on her birth and baptism certificates, her name is spelt Dianne.  The house she grew up in was known as a pre-fab and was one of more than 150,000 prefabricated buildings built all over the UK between 1946 and 1948 to rehouse ex-servicemen and their families or bombed-out people.  They were only supposed to last 10 to 15 years but many are still standing.

Mums first job was working for a company called Kayser Bonder in Biggleswade as a sewing machinist, she also worked for Skirtex as a sewing machinist and Electrolux as an amateur winder, both in Luton. As a sewing machinist she did piece work, a type of work which pays a fixed rate for each unit produced or action performed regardless of time. After having my sister and me, she worked as a childminder and later worked for Tesco and Mothercare. On retiring, she took up quilt making, something she had always wanted to do and it turns out she is amazing at it.

Dad was born in August 1944, the only child of my grandparents Louis Bowers Abram and Delia Eileen Clarke. When he was young dad spent a lot of time at airfields watching aircraft and was a member of The London Gliding Club in Dunstable. In his late teens he became an airport fire security officer, which was the starting point for 35 years as a fire/security officer protecting people, fine arts (including works by Leonardo da Vinci), power stations and research facilities. The roles were very active and often involved climbing vertical ladders of 90 – 100 feet.

Dad told me his earliest memory is aged three – four years old sitting on the tailboard of a removal lorry with a wire haired fox terrier, moving from a city side street house in Northampton to a bungalow in the Northamptonshire countryside, two miles from the nearest small town with open country side front and back. When he was younger he also enjoyed CB radio and later progressed to ham radio, studying with City and Guilds to obtain the required licence and becoming involved with local scout group who had a radio jamboree once a year.

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Big sis, little sis

My sister Rachel and I were born a little over two years apart. I was born at mum and dads then home in Luton and Rachel was born in hospital in Chester.  Despite being two years older, it did often feel like Rachel came into the world running (there was just so much to learn about), whereas, I took things much slower – mum thought she was going to have me a week or so before she did but it seems I had a think about things and decided to wait a while longer … to this day i am a dotting your i’s crossing your t’s kinda of a gal.

I remember Rachel getting into a fair few scrapes – using her teeth to get out of her cot; a visit to accident an emergency when she ran head first into Stuart McClleland in the school playground (coming off worst with a black eye); coming home from infant school with her cream waistcoat covered in paint; then there was the time she took a liking to my Pluto toy and tried to eat him, managing to bite through the plastic.  Needless to say Pluto didn’t recover.  She was really much too young to know what she had done but somehow has never been allowed to forget what she did.

My childhood seems to have been less eventful, I was much happier in a corner with my head in a book, although I had my moments too. I remember pulling the legs off a plastic spider when Rachel annoyed me one time and throwing her Darth Vader toy out of the window to see if he could fly.

Despite our differences though, she is always the person I have the most fun with and I have very happy memories of the many things we have done together.

Love ya loads little sis.

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Louis and Delia

Louis Bowers Abram and Delia Eileen Clarke were my grandparents on my fathers side of the family.

Delia was the daughter of Northamptonshire Police Sergeant Albert Edward William Clarke and was one of five children. Louis was the second son of Joseph Charles Abram, an Army Sergeant and Millicent May Bowers.

During the 1930’s Louis passed exams set by the East Midland Educational Union in Motor in Practical Mathematics, Workshop Science and Principles of Engineering and Engineering (Mechanical). He later worked at S and W Motors Limited where he was indentured as an apprentice from May 1931 to May 1933, as a Motor Engineer at York Ward and Rowlatt  from May 1933 to May 1934 and at Gilmour and Vale a company that manufactured engineering components.  He also worked at Vauxhall Motors in Luton, retiring in 1970 after 25 years service having established ‘an excellent reputation in respect of loyalty, conscientiousness and timekeeping’. He was a Corporal in the Royal Air Force and learnt to fly in a Tiger Moth at Sywell but war broke out on the day he was due to take his test, so he never saw active combat.

I remember visiting my grandparents at their homes in Luton and Chester. My grandad grew tomatoes in a greenhouse and to this day, I can’t smell tomatoes without thinking about him. My nan I remember would wear more than one pair of glasses at a time and also, back when we had paper money, would use the money as writing paper to work out how much she owed someone or who much they owed her. In writing this, I am surprised at how many photos of my nan I have found where she is standing, as I only really ever remember her with mobility issues  – firstly using sticks to get around and later being confined to a wheelchair.  Nan’s condition went un-diagnosed during her lifetime but today it seems likely that she could have had centronuclear myopathy like dad and I.

 

 

 

 

The Shortland family

Further information

Information about the name Shortland can be found on the Find My Past website below.

Dad’s 70th

Dad celebrated his 70th birthday in 2014. To mark the occasion, me and the Little Sis got him a bottle of sparkling wine from New Lodge Vineyard in Earls Barton, Northamptonshire where some of our ancestors lived which we gave to him in a wine box personalised with his name and date of both.

We also gave him an armed forces bear from Great British Teddies in RAF gear, like his father might have worn when he served.  The bears are dressed at the Poppy factory in the UK by wounded ex-military personnel, that Great British Teddies employ to get wounded, sick and injured ex-armed forces men and women back to work.

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Governess to the King of Iraq

Dorothy Clarke, later Faber, was the eldest child of my great grandparents Albert and Louisa and she encouraged my interest in family history, sending me photos and other bits and pieces. Although born in Northamptonshire, I only remember her living in a big house in York that she shared with her sister Molly and two sausage dogs. The house overlooked the white horse cut into the hillside on the North York Moors.

One of the most interesting things Dorothy sent to me was the letter below from a Miss Lennox-Carr of Piccadilly (according to the biography of the historical novelist Georgette Heyer, Miss Lennox-Carr ran a registry office for governesses), recommending Dorothy for the post of governess to the young King of Iraq. I don’t believe that Dorothy took up the offer but nevertheless it is a lovely piece of family history.

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In January 2022 I was contacted by Tony Walker who had seen this blog post.  He had come across a document for Miss Carr’s agency when sorting through some some historical papers and asked if I would like a copy. The document can be viewed below.

Terms and conditions for Miss Lennox-Carr's Ladies' Employment and School Agency.

Street party for the wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Di

As I recall, street parties took place across the UK to celebrate the wedding of Prince Charles to Lady Di and Langport Drive was no different. Royal wedding fever had swept the nation and I kept a scrap book with newspaper and magazine cuttings from the time, which I still have in a box somewhere (together with my Wham scrapbook, full of photos from Look In and Smash Hits magazines). I remember watching the wedding on television and being in awe of the fairytale princess in the ivory dress and the oh so cute bridesmaids with the flower garlands in their hair.

For the street party, our road was shut to traffic, bunting stretched from one side of the road to the other and tables lined the street so we could eat together. An essay writing competition was held for the children. I think we were asked to write about the Wedding of Cana where water was turned into wine. I won the competition and was awarded a commemorative bible which I still own.

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Happy birthday

Birthdays were a time for dressing up. We had party dresses made by our mums and my favourite thing to do in mine was to stand in the middle of the lounge floor and spin round and round, watching the skirt flare out around me, until I got dizzy.

We played party games – pin the tail on the donkey, oranges and lemons, ring a ring of roses, pass the parcel, musical chairs and musical statues. There was always lots of party food too – cheese squares and sausages on sticks, chocolate fingers and I remember my mum would make toadstools out of a hard boiled egg and half a tomato which had cottage cheese blobs on top. Then there were the birthday cakes – amazing creations. My favourite, a Hansel and Gretel house made from Battenburg cake.

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The Rose Queen

The Rose Queen was an event, organised by the church in Vicars Cross, which took place each summer and saw local children taking part in a procession which culminated in a crowning ceremony outside of the church.

If my memory serves me well the fabric for our dresses was chosen from Laura Ashley and those taking part, took part for two years. A dress was needed for both years, so those watching the procession could see who were the incoming and outgoing participants were.

I remember very clearly my mum trying to make the headdress I was required to wear stay on my head.  I have naturally fine poker straight hair which my mum would brush until it shone and the headdress wouldn’t stay where it was put. I think eventually we must have given up, as the headdress appears to not be in all the photographs.

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